Wednesday, May 27, 2015

The Choice to Love

When I look at the world around me, too often I am saddened. I see countless marriages and homes destroyed after years of being together. The idea that a common reason for so many homes falling apart is "I feel out of love with them" is an abomination. It is a testimony to how devoid of love their soul must be. The idea that anyone after having children and committing to being with someone for life would go and break their word destroying the confidence of their children, and subjecting them to one of the worst forms of child abuse in the process, all over the idea that they do not care to put in the effort to love someone is atrocious at best.

Yes there are cases where divorce is needed, but most of those are going to involve someone going to jail afterwards, or at least needing to. If you have children then to get a divorce simply because you fell out of love with someone is hateful at best and is like telling your children "I am too lazy to put in the effort to be a part of your life."

Those are my feelings on the matter. I realize that not everyone is going to share my view and that some people will very much hate what I have to say about divorce, but love is a choice you make each and every day. If you feel out of love with someone then it is not something that is completely beyond your control. It is something that either you have been doing wrong or just not doing at all.

This poem explores part of the process of choosing to love someone.

The Love of My Life

Wednesday Morning Thoughts

I hope this gives you something to think about.

Tuesday, May 26, 2015

Love Notes

This poem actually started out as a note I was going to write to Deanne, but then as I started to write it, I found that it was actually a poem that wanted to come out not a note.

Good Morning Beautiful

Tuesday Morning Thoughts

I hope this gives you something to think about.